Tuesday, April 2, 2013

I'se Married Now *in my color purple voice*

Okay so I'm not really married but unfortunately I've come down with the fever: yellow fever. Dammit I swore I was going to get vaccinated after Ethan but I forgot. I swore all the Chinese men off just like bitter women do after a breakup. It's been 3 months so I guess it's time to move on.

My girl who is a housewife ( what I will be) introduced me to her husband's friend. They were waiting outside and he took my hand kissed it and walked me to their section. We are talking and laughing having a good time. Then he whispers I like you. An hour later I meet some of his friends and he introduces me as his wife. Unfortunately my face said what the fuck? I quickly changed it and smiled and said a few Chinese words. I shrugged it off cause I figured he was drunk. Afterwards we take a walk in the park and he takes me home and doesn't try me!!!!!!!
So he's been calling me his wife ever since. I doubled check to make sure he knows my name and the translation for wife. Again with Chinese men there's no bullshitting. If they like you 4real, there all the way in. He's extremely sweet and very old fashioned. He gives me roses, sweet messages etc. the stuff that makes you feel all girly and shit. (Trying to be less thug and more girly bare with me.) All his friends love me.I was raised by strong black women so I know how to serve a man. He always makes sure I'm straight so I have no problem serving him. When I was putting food on his plate and pouring his drinks his friends told me I was a perfect wife. I was thinking well actually I'm not a wife at all but okay. They all know me as dan's wife" ( he has a Extra Chinese name so we will call him Dan)

Our relationship is quite different from me and Ethan. Yes I'm comparing, don't judge me. Ethan def wasn't romantic, no flowers etc. The first time we met we both peed in bushes together. Ethan and I did have a lot of free personal time together. Dan has an assistant and a driver so it's always a group. Dan is mr. I'll send somebody. When I go to the bathroom someone escorts me. He always send someone or something to take his place or a gift so I can't complain. It's hard cause he's ALWAYS working and I work 6 days out the week so when he's traveling I can't see him. I can see why housewives start fucking the pool boy now. Lol. I've been a good wife, after work I come home. No parties etc. Trying to improve my cooking skills and work on my businesses.
Dan is great and I take it day by day. The hardest thing is to try to give your heart to someone after countless disappointments. So I tell myself love like I never been hurt. Even when I want to jap, I ask myself if my ex didn't do that would I even think that? Hell I'm 28 I gotta let go of my fear and settle down.

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Location:I'se marry now *color purple voice*

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